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April 13th 2014 ‘How to deal with those ‘push me-pull you’ moments …&#821

Happy Sunday to one and all  … try to do what makes your heart sing this day!


Our blog hopes to encourage and inspire the reader, the aspirant and the devotee  of truth, and ultimately help each and every Soul to understand and answer three questions, ‘Who am I, why am I here, and where am I going?’ As each post that you read is written by ‘inner-dictation’, these snippets an also form can invisible link between all our hearts, while resonating deep within, to help guide you towards your own goal of self-realization, and into bliss and eternal peace.

Here is today’s extract, taken from a ‘lesson’ called Quest … How to deal with those ‘push me-pull you moments’ …

The heart’s centre is soft, precious, and all giving … and it doesn’t like to upset the mind, and so tries to appease it with rationalization, when in fact this can weaken resolve, thus causing you to become confused and indecisive. All this leads to never ending circles of illusion, those ‘push me–pull you’ or those ‘should I or shouldn’t I’ scenarios, but direct action and determination needs to be the primary focus and aim for the Soul instead.

In fact, these oscillating periods can bring sadness, discontentment, and strain between connections of family and friends, as each of your lives seem headed in different directions, when ideally your lives should become intertwined to support and help each other. Indeed, I see these fractured emotions and many red eyes (I’s) from tears having fallen, which then leave traces and scars across hearts resembling ploughed fields. But, in your weakness, if you can start to trust in me and yourself, I will make you strong once again. Then, new seeds of opportunity and growth will find their way up (and through) the fertilized soil (Soul), being blessed by my grace, grown with my love, and sustained by my light.

By cultivating and finding one’s own truth, and following it with passion and integrity, your hopes and dreams will rise and flourish, so you just need to believe it. However, as your life then progresses, you may still succumb to negative feelings and look back upon these phases and think, ‘Where did it all go wrong?’ Or, ‘How and why was I so happy back then?’ Well think! What were you doing at that time compared to now? Who has been, or what is influencing you?

That said, try not to blame anyone else for how you think or feel, as all Souls are a reflection of each other. You must realize it is you who are responsible for every decision you make for yourself. It is vital too, that guilt is not bestowed upon another via one’s own traits of personality, character, or demeanor, which may desire to control or influence someone or something else. Remember, I am the In-Dweller of all hearts, and so when you inflict pain in any form upon another, then not only is that pain directed to me but it can also reflect onto yourself.Amen. 



I am I: The In-Dweller of Your Heart  (Part III).

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This third installment, from I am I: The In-Dweller of your Heart series, written with, from and through ‘Spirit’ … will uplift, inspire and guide your heart and soul towards self-realization, enabling you to reach your eternal goal in this lifetime. Each ‘lesson’ aims to help you, not only to find your own truth ‘within’, but also enrich your life with joy and love, to finally remember who you are, why your here, and where you are going to.

Please remember, I do not ask you to give up, or even deny your current beliefs, for every faith and religion, and all colors, creeds and languages of man, in truth … wish you to bask within the completeness and glory of ‘God’. I promise you this, the road ahead will become much easier, if you can also recognize the attachment to your senses, for they act like mirrors, reflecting a fog of confusion from the impermanent world in which you reside.

Therefore, try to clear this mist, not by looking through rose colored glasses, but by removing those curtains and shadows of doubt before you, to witness the reality … from, through and inside your own spark of divinity.  Understand too, that these ‘lessons’, just like eternal whispers being cast upon the wind of my breath, can help you to rediscover your already free, not only to find your own path and destiny, but also strive towards the goal of self-realization and liberation, and into perpetual bliss and peace.

About the author: DAVID KNIGHT was born into his current physical embodiment in 1964. He is married to Caroline, and they live with their adopted cats Toby, Treacle, Spiky, and Missy in the UK. Over the years, he has made a living from various types of work … ranging from HM Forces, Financial Services, as a Care Assistant, and also becoming self employed in property maintenance.

However, to find true fulfillment, his search changed from the exterior and without, to the interior and ‘within’. As such, spiritual education gained a greater momentum, and with it, a renewed dedication and realization dawned upon him … with further evidence of, and from God, revealed through many of his life experiences. These, together with the aid of Spirit guides, and beings from the ethereal planes, formed the new foundations for all those who wish to reignite and experience, their own Heart’s flame of love and light … and to embark upon a unique opportunity for all Soul’s in this lifetime too.

When not working, or writing, his hobbies include music, nature, spending time with family and friends … as well as watching action and / or sc-fi films, and the occasional ‘on-line’ gaming session with the Playstation!



I will continue to post extracts from them which I hope you will find informative, uplifting and encourage you to become the best person, human being and soul that you can be! Remember, parts 1 and 2 and 3 have all been collated with and through ‘inner dictation’ from my speaking heart to yours … so enjoy!


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May you keep shining each and every day.  God bless you all, Dave -AscensionForYou- Knight.

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